Question: you have worked for several years with a africanamerican man...

 You have worked for several years with a African-American man who has a history of rejection by women.  He has worked through many issues and finally has a suitable and loving relationship. He is very grateful to you and strongly encourages you to attend the wedding.
 a. If you decide not to attend, how would you address this with your client?
 b. If you decide to attend, how would you address this with your client and at the wedding?